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    Lady Dog and Me

    I was 74 years old when this picture was taken. Lady Dog was a stray (a small German Shepherd/Katahula mix) and the vet guessed her age between 3-5 years when I got her. She never stopped showing her appreciation for having a home with me. She wasn't a barker, but would let you know when someone came. She didn't chase cars, she didn't chase cats, she didn't jump up on you, she didn't ever do a single thing wrong, she was a perfect lady. Lady Dog survived cancer, she had a mast tumor stage 2. She loved on my mother for the three years I cared for her and mother died at 99 in 2010. I always told Lady we would grow old together, we even starting stiffening up together with arthritis. I am 77 and Lady went to doggie heaven in December 2012, I bawled like a baby, she was my protecter, my constant companion and slept on the bed with the cat and I. Lady Dog deserves a star in her crown. 

    Dr. Sharron Larter Akers

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    Know That it is a Privilege to Visit Your Family

     

    My advice is to know & believe that it is a privilege to be able to visit your family in an assisted living home. The way their face lights up when you come by is priceless. Picking  up the phone and calling daily if possible also puts a skip in their step. Their voice sounds so happy when they pick up the phone & it’s a loved family member. Patience & hugs are essential, and the more you have of each, the better your loved one will feel.

    If you have a pet that you can bring with you when you visit, that will ensure that not only your loved one will enjoy the pet’s presence but everyone you walk by in the assisted living area wants to pet your dog & will smile. That enables  you to spread the cheer around to each & everyone you come in contact with on your visit to the assisted living home. Every time I visit I leave with a heart full of love.

     

    Thank you for listening,

    Karla Hawe, Daughter of Viola Lucas at Emeritus at Hazel Creek

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    Remember to take care of yourself!

    Sometimes when we are caregivers, we give everything we have to the care of another.  But we must care equally for ourselves in order to continue caring for those we love most.  How can you care for yourself in the midst of caregiving for someone else?  First, accept offers of help from others.  When someone offers their help, it is a gift from their heart to yours.  Learn to accept that gift with grace.  When someone asks,  “What can I do for you?”, tell them.  “I could use some help mowing the lawn, driving to the doctor’s office, handling housework, getting groceries, etc.“   Listen to your favorite music when you have a few moments.  Ask someone to record some of your favorite music to a CD or Ipod.  Turn on a favorite CD or radio station.  Keep a book, magazine or e-reader with you for the opportunity when you can find a few moments to read…perhaps when waiting for an appointment.  Thousands of books can be downloaded for free today.

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    Life Worth Living

    Meet my friend, Helen Wexler. She’s a retired homemaker, business owner, and most importantly, a loving mother to her son, Greg. She will be 94 in September. I help her son care for his mother as they are both great friends to me. Greg and I are continually thinking of new ways to enrich Helen’s life as she is now a widow and prefers to live alone. We promote healthy hobbies, such as swimming. Helen loves to walk in the pool with the assistance of noodles and supervision. Swimming is great exercise as its low impact and also provides vitamin D from our friend, the sun!

    To further care for Helen, we also took her on a vacation for her 93rd birthday to Las Vegas! While in Las Vegas, Helen got to try chocolate fondue for the first time, as well as see the gondolas at the Venetian, making it an absolutely unforgettable birthday. Helen suffers from Bowel Incontinence, making her reluctant to go out in fear of an accident. Greg and I are always sure to bring the proper care products with us in case, making outings no problem at all!  

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    Overmedicating the Elderly – the new Epidemic

    An 83-year-old grandmother is rushed to the hospital because of an asthma attack.  Once there, she is prescribed steroids for the asthma, which causes her blood pressure to skyrocket.  To lower her blood pressure, the hospital prescribes a medicine that makes her dizzy. Then, her ankles began to swell, so she is given a water pill, which causes her level of potassium to drop. So the doctors add potassium supplements. She is also given a drug to treat osteoporosis, which causes her stomach to bleed. At the end of her stay, the grandmother comments, “I came out sicker than when I went in.”

    This is just one real-life story of an ever-growing epidemic – the overmedication of America, and the elderly in particular. In 2011, doctors wrote 4.02 billion prescriptions for drugs in America. That’s an average of roughly 13 prescriptions for each man, woman, and child, or one new prescription every month for every American.

    Seniors are at greater risk

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    Tips on How to Make it to 105 Years Old

    Happy 105th birthday to Avicia from Emeritus at Danville! Who shares Avicia's birthday? Lita Grey! Who is Lita Grey? She was a Hollywood born and raised actress. She was once married to Charlie Chaplin. She starred in "The Kid," "Unknown Chaplin" and "Seasoned Greetings." Ms. Lita Grey had two children during her marriage to Charlie Chaplin, Sydney and Charles Chaplin.
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    We’re Not Gonna Take It Anymore!

    Think of senior citizens and the average person conjures up images of blue hairs in track suits, smelling of Ben Gay and talcum powder, clutching well-worn AARP cards and dining on the early bird special at 4:30 p.m. while receiving a senior discount off the tab. But if you look around you will see that the myth of the docile, gentle, unassuming septuagenarian is being exploded on all manner of social fronts. From Betty White to Barbara Hillary, today’s seniors are sassy, feisty, fit, and yes, sexy. They’re not your momma’s grandma anymore!
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    Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall

    A recent article in More Magazine (December 2012 issue) discussed how different cultures perceive a woman’s beauty as she ages. American culture tells us constantly if we are not twenty something, stick thin but with curves in the appropriate places, full lipped and perfectly coiffed, we are not beautiful. Other societies have markedly different standards. The six countries mentioned in the article were: Greece, Ghana, Malaysia, India, France, and Romania.
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    Caretaking for someone with dementia (video series)

    This is a series of six videos that are designed to help caregivers that are taking care of family members that are suffering from Alzheimer's, dementia or other memory loss issues. Topics covered include how to help with bathing, how to help with toileting, how to help with eating, how to manage difficult behavior and how to communicate with someone affected by Alzheimer's, dementia or memory loss issues.